No joke, my Keurig died this morning. If you know me – you know that I rode the struggle bus to work lacking the 1% of my daily intake of caffeine that actually gets my ass out of the door in the morning. It’s the 9+ hours at work where I really pump the veins full of dark roast, extra bold acidity.
Bitter.
Yes. Today is quite bitter. The loss of the Keurig was rough, but what was even crazier was waking up remembering this exact morning one year ago.
I was in and out of the nursing home for six days. I had left the night of the 14th after spending nights by his bedside with aunts, uncles and truly amazing cousins. I needed the rest. I needed the comfort and smell of home. Hospice was beautifully exhausting. Really, I need to sleep. So I did. I slept hard, surprisingly.
On the morning of the 15th I woke up, walked into the bathroom and turned on the shower. As I walked away to let the water warm up I said to myself, “I don’t need a shower. I need to just go.”
I threw a hat on to cover the grease ball head of mine and ran down the stairs where Tyler had a cup of coffee and my phone waiting for me. He said, “Your aunt just called.” I gave the boys kisses and ran out the door.
As I jumped in the car and pulled out of the driveway I called her back. She said, “Things are looking close. You should come now.” I told her I was on my way.
Here, I waited for a week by his side, anticipating the moment that he would finally meet God – and now I am stuck in morning rush hour traffic on my way to his bedside for the last time.
Although I wasn’t super close with my dad, I feel like he has been with me more in the last year than the previous five. There are times where I find myself thinking about him and I don’t see the pain and suffering that I was so used to seeing on his weary face. Those moments and happy thoughts are far more pleasant than the guilt and sadness that I often felt for him while he was alive. There is a peaceful comfort that has entered my life since last year. A guardian angel has been with me. God has given him wings and I know he is with me every day.
One year ago, prompted by my cousin Kelly, I made the decision to ride in the Bike MS: TOYOTA Best Dam Bike Ride. Tyler’s cousin Sara rode with me. She rocked it. And her support was much appreciated. Funny how the event takes place the first weekend of August. Last year the ride started on August 2, ironically, Dad’s birthday. This year we will finish our 100+ mile ride on August 2. I don’t think I could have planned that better knowing that I will need his strength to dig deep and finish strong.
Join me by clicking here. Ride with me. Donate to MS and help find a cure.
Read the eulogy I read at his funeral here.
Many Blessings and Cheers, Jax